Monday, November 16, 2009

Does this email i sent give a vibe that i have a mental illness?

i sent an email to a doctor, asking if i could exercise because i sprained my ankle before and i was trying to exericise because my friends was so cocky about how she was taller than me, i couldn't stand it so i decided to grow taller





hi, how are you?


i want to ask you if i can jump rope because im really stressed out right now


my friends and i compared our heights and she was similar or 1cm taller than me


this might sound a little weird, but i feel like going crazy, and moreover im sweating


if i could do some intense exercise now like jumping 4000 times?





would stretching intensely and often help me get back on the road?





is there any fast-growing techniques you know that would give me a better idea of myself?


are growth hormone pills any reliable, possibly from shoppers drug mart?


25 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.


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23 minutes ago





he read it but he didn't reply


7 minutes ago





we're close, do you think he's thinking of me as crazy or is he mad?


im anxious


5 minutes ago





im freaking out since i have anxiety disorder i think


i can't do anything right now properly


2 minutes ago





is this a stupid question to ask because he thinks that im smart, but he's not replying


7 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.


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7 hours ago





i asked this question because i was so unstable when i wrote it because of the stress of height


7 hours ago





im 18 female


7 hours ago





i've already asked this question before too but not about the heigth


3 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.


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3 hours ago





he's been knowing me as a really intelligent person, but would he not think that of me from now on?


3 hours ago





he's not caucasian, do you think there's a chance that he didn't understand my words


although he's been a surgeon for a long time


3 hours ago





no advice, just if im weird


3 hours ago





he's not an official doctor anymore, so he has lots of time on his hands, i just think that he's avoiding me


3 hours ago





does this give off the depression or mental illness general vibe because i have some problems


is it noticible, i think i kina went too far


3 hours ago





he's a close doctor, not some random doctor that i go to

Does this email i sent give a vibe that i have a mental illness?
yes, i'm sorry it does. you shouldn't be concerned about being 1 cm shorter then your friend, i'm 5'1", i don't care, everyones taller then me. at 18 odds are your done growing, i don't think jumping ropes going to make you taller, it would probably shorten you compacting your spine down while jumping. maybe hanging upside down on one of those inversion tables would make you a bit taller, your always tallest first thing in the morning from laying down and your spine and other joint compact down from gravity during the day. don't stretch intensely you likely to cause damage, just stretch to where it's a little uncomfortable and you will daily see improvements anyway, you can't rush somethings, be careful.


your email does sound like your mixed up and concerned about things that you shouldn't be. don't worry so much, we all have bad moments. maybe email him again and tell him you were having a bad moment and to disregard your last email. tell him that you were just writing down some thoughts but didn't mean to send without removing a couple lines. it doesn't look well thought out and you may have fixed it if you would've waited till you felt calmer to send.


i'm sure you are an intelligent person, and he knows this too, that doesn't change, at this point he may think your a little odd.. you probably have all the right answers concerning anything but yourself. it's normal to find yourself the hardest to analyze, thats why it's good to talk to someone, if they're good they can tell you why and where your feelings come from and it can be at least understood and overcome or treated.


try some relaxation technics, you need to calm down about what is and can't be changed, breath deeply in through your nose slowly and release it out your mouth slowly and think about good things. you might be a cm too short but your able to walk, try to write down all the things your thankful for and read them everyday and add to it as you see more. try to think more positively about yourself then to find small things wrong with you. you should be happy with what and who you are, that's all you can be. and if friends make you feel bad they're not good friends. take care.
Reply:I am sorry hun but it does sound a bit bizarre. have you tried talking to someone?


GL
Reply:Yes it does.
Reply:the way you kept updating the question...sounds like you have ocd or anxiety.....give him more than 2 min to reply maybe he is doing research
Reply:I think he would have gotten rid of a letter like this because it sounds so silly.
Reply:I like jumping rope
Reply:You say you are close to him....then he is aware of your issues, right? You do seem to have OCD, anxiety, panic attacks.





Remember, it's NOT all about you. You don't have any idea what's going on in his life right now. Just because he didn't answer doesn't mean you did something wrong, etc.





Let me answer your question. There is absolutely NOTHING you can do to grow any taller. You are done growing. So no matter what exercises you do (or don't do)....nothing is going to make you grow. Now, you can stop obsessing about this. If this "so-called" friend mentions her height to you again, just say to her,


"I have a question for you. I've always wanted to know how YOU became so perfect? Please tell me."





And just smile at her. I promise she won't brag about her height to you anymore.
Reply:uhhhhhhhhhh.
Reply:wow. i'd say you need some help. ever go to a doctor instead of just emailing?
Reply:The letter sounds fine. But growth hormones wouldn't help you after the age 16 or so anyways.





It's Holiday season, he's just busy. Have a cup of tea and relax. I suggest peppermint.





Happy Thanksgiving!


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