Friday, November 20, 2009

Whats wrong??? Is he suffering a mental disorder?

Symptoms:


He has very strange mood swings


(ex) Last week, I saw him and he polite to me while driving me to College. As we got closer to college I brought up a question to him asking if he thought my father was having financial problems. He screamed at me and said he was insulted that I would even think such a thing since my dad always gives me money. Then convo went on and on and he persistantly kept yelling at me even though I said nevermind. About an hour later he got quiet, stopped talking and rolled the window down. He said he was nauseaus and sweating. He forgot what we were talking about and was very nice to me. He was no longer very coherent and became confused. He actually let me drive the rest of the way to college.


I can't explain to you how scared I was for him and myself.





Is there something wrong with him and if so, what?

Whats wrong??? Is he suffering a mental disorder?
If its something that just happened once, then I wouldn't worry about it to much, but if this is something that happens often then something might be wrong. Could be bipolar disorder, or he might have a boarderline personality disorder (Might want to look that one up its hard to explain). Or something like depression. I'd do a little more research on those three and see what you can come up with, and what fits best.
Reply:yes there probably is something wrong. the first thing that came into my head is bipolar. Although don't rely on any diagnosis from anyone who isn't a professional.
Reply:steroids maybe? dunno what causes irritability AND nausea...





some drug?
Reply:Souds like he is stressed out about something.
Reply:You need to get him to a doctor fast. He might have a very serious medical problem.
Reply:He could be Bipolar or have phycosis which are forms of scizophrenia but you won't know unless he's hearing voices so speak to a doctor or counciler about it before you go accusing him of having scizophrenia
Reply:This is serious. You should have him see a doctor asap. He sounds like Schizophrenia or Bipolar disorder. Sometimes physical symptoms arise in these types of situations.
Reply:WHo is this person? It sounds like he is overstressed. Tell him you are there for him and suggest he see soemone if he can. Yeah he is definitly stressed i do not think he has emotional problems but rather lashes out feels bad and then treats you nicely because he felt bad about what he said either way let him know you are there and suggest help. Seems like he has a lot of things he's keeping in and that itself could drive soemone crazy :(
Reply:He definitely sounds like he is bi-polar manic depressive. He needs to see a doctor today. Usually the person exhibiting these symptoms, doesn't see it. So he will most likely refuse to see a doctor. The other possibility is he using drugs, coming down or suffering withdrawal pains. Either way, I would be very afraid to go riding with him again or even be around him. You don't say if he is a relative or friend, but I would cut him loose and keep you own sanity intact. You don't need this type of insanity!


Good Luck!
Reply:Hi, first of all it's hard to diagnose without a little history but from what you describe, by you being a little surprised and confused tells me this is kinda new. If this is unlike your usual habits of communication, I suggest you both sit down and re-evaluate your motives together and plans for the future. More importantly, how you are going to get there (the future that is). You see in any relationship there has to be fashion of communication established. Unfortunately, over time, that changes, just like fashion does. Usually, not for the better. In the beginning, things are always nicey nice, until the real self comes out. If someone experiences stuff they did'nt bargain for they usually move on unless there is deep commitment. If that's the case, then it should'nt be hard to address the problem and get the help necesarry. Always remember to use "I" statements such as "I felt afraid when you". This gives the other person the chance to understand your genuine concern without the blame component which otherwise puts the person on the deffensive. It's never our place to challenge someones mental state when they have a blow out. Just ask the ones within earshot of the yelling, their look should say it all. It's not cool. If you two are very close, maybe it's time for a holliday, unless maybe a new drug problem has jumped into the mix!...The bottom line is, you are number one and you allow others to treat you how you think you deserve to be treated. You are responsible for your safety and well being, and if at any time you feel threatened, save yourself because weather it's mental illness, drugs, bad temper or just a bad day, the first question should be..."what am i doing here!".

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