I have a crush on a co-worker who has a girlfriend. I have no plans of doing anything about this crush, but I have to work with and interact with him, and every time I talk to him I start sweating and turn purple. This is very embarrassing. By now I figure that he thinks 2 things about me. 1. That I have a crush on him *wince* or 2. that I have high blood pressure and a glandular disorder.
My questions are this. First, does anyone have any ideas on how to stop the sweating and the red face? Please???
Second, it's pretty obvious I like him, huh? What would you think if someone changed colors and sweated profusely, but only in your presence?
Embarrassment problem... and 2 questions...?
lol, that what everybody want. Love Or crush if you preferd.
well, love make your heart beat faster, your body temperature go up, and your acting becam slow or sometime can vibrat.
how about if you tell him that?
"i need to get some coffee, so do you want to come"
it not like his married or something.
go for it.
Reply:I would either think that they had serious anxiety porblems or that they liked me and i made them nervous.
Reply:good luck with that...
Reply:STOP
i hate people who still have crushes on univalible people
if u ever go fartehr u will always be seen as the "other woman"
Reply:For your second question, I'd be flaterred. Who doesn't like to know someone thinks they're attractive?
The first question...I used to do the samething. I'd try to be around him more (without being obvious). Eventually it should tone down.
Reply:when you're around him act as if you don't have a crush on him and besides who knows he and his girlfriend might break up and he might need a friend to talk to and i think its you just be friends first and get to know him better.love at first site sometimes don't come as you think
Reply:*Well to be honest if someone sweated profusely and changed colors in my presence my honest to god first thought is: "Is that person ok?"
.I don't mean that thought in a bad way either...but I think generally speaking anyone would most likely say the same thing.
.Anyways so is there any cure or medicine for your glandular disorder by chance? Have you spoken with a doctor to find out treatment options or potential treatment options? I found something that might help you a little bit.
*Also it's not a matter of what we would think, because we aren't the one(s) you are crushing on. SO I think if that guy has a girlfriend, odds are you won't be dating him anytime soon. Until then you can keep looking but you can touch.
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Reply:I'm not sure on the first question. I don't have that problem- usually stay pretty cool. The only thing I can suggest is get a grip on what a "crush" really is. If it's possible to take an analytical approach - tell yourself that your hormones, chemical reactions are what's causing this feeling. It is a physical thing, and doesn't necessarily mean it's "love" (more often it is not love, and we figure this out later when the initial physical reactions in our body subside)
2nd question. It's difficult to say if he "knows" or not. Some people are not very perceptive and may not notice anything at all. Others may be a bit perceptive and notice something, but won't know what it means - will misread the signs. If he is the perceptive type, and aware of his attractiveness (sexually aware) then, he will know exactly what's going on. That isn't necessarily a bad thing unless he's the type to exploit your weakness for him. More often it's a good thing. If he's aware you're attracted, it's more likely he'll be inclined to ask you out if he is also interested.
If he's not, well I guess you need to be the perceptive one in order to decide if he knows and if he is or isn't interested.
Be wary of him in case he's the type who'll exploit your weakness. Don't get too involved until you know he has unloaded the GF.
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